I had a conversation this week with a friend who was angry and upset about the fact that her fifth grade son needed a reading tutor.
"Honestly, why didn't I know that he needed help way back in third grade? Why did it take this teacher this long to finally let me know that my kid was having problems? HOW could he be so far behind — now?" she pleaded.
Without getting into the details of her particular situation, I will say that she is not alone.
Many of the students I tutored over the last ten years I found to be far below the reading targets for their grade level. Often, all it takes is one year for a student to miss some integral pieces in the reading comprehension skillset, and then they begin to fall further and further behind.
How does this happen? How should parents stay on top of this kind of thing when there is so much to know and do? How do you know if your child needs a reading intervention? When should you push the panic button?
There's no hard and fast answer for every child, but here are two elements to keep in mind:
Know how your child reads.
Now and again, ask your child to read to you. It doesn't always have to be a book, though books totally work. Have them read the lunch menu or the headline of the newspaper to you in the morning before school. Or, ask them to read you the steps of a recipe while you make dinner.
Always have a sense of how your child reads. If you notice huge pushback or feel like something isn't right, talk to your child's teacher.
Know your child's teacher.
Always keep an open line of communication with the teacher. If you have any concerns, email. Call. Request a conference. You, as a parent, are permitted — encouraged! — to know at all times how your child is performing and progressing in school.
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