From the Scholastic Bookshelf: How to Talk to Your Child About LGBTQIA+

Creating awareness around identity encourages kids to be their truest selves — and open to understanding others.

Aug 11, 2022
From the Scholastic Bookshelf: How to Talk to Your Child About LGBTQIA+

Aug 11, 2022

Shining a light on LGBTQIA+ stories, characters, and experiences ensures that all children have the opportunity to see themselves reflected in what they read, and show respect and kindness for others who are different from them.

Creating awareness around the spectrum of identities gives children reassurance that they’re not alone — and provides perspective into the different feelings humans can have. The LGBTQIA+ acronym includes initials for “intersex” and “asexual” or “allied” (allies are those who support the community).

For its 100th anniversary, Scholastic spoke with experts to identify a set of books, articles, and tips that make starting a conversation with your child about LGBTQIA+ pride celebratory and thoughtful. These resources are part of a broader initiative, called the Scholastic Bookshelf, created for Instagram to raise awareness around contemporary issues affecting children today.

LGBTQIA+ Stories for Younger Readers

During adolescence, children encounter new feelings that can be confusing but eye-opening.

Rick is entering middle school and making new friends as he begins to question his sexuality. From Alex Gino, author of the best-selling Melissa (who happens to sit in front of Rick in class), this is a story about becoming yourself — and the people you need around you to make it happen.

Friendships play a huge role in a child's journey of self-discovery. In Hurricane Child, 12-year-old Caroline's streak of bad luck begins to change when Kalinda from Barbados arrives at her small school on the island of St. Thomas. As Caroline confronts her feelings for Kalinda, the two begin a quest for Caroline’s missing mother in the storm to end all storms.

LGBTQIA+ Stories for Older Readers

As their identities take shape, teens often struggle to balance self-acceptance with external, societal pressures (from family or peers). Living one's truth is a common theme of middle-grade texts. 

Openly Straight is a “coming-out-again” novel that finds gay poster child Rafe transferring schools from a Colorado town — where he’s been out since age 8 and gives lectures on tolerance — to an all-boys’ boarding school in New England. 

In his new environment, Rafe is determined not to be the ambassador of “out and proud,” so he keeps his identity to himself. But old habits die hard, and it’s not long before Rafe is urged to reveal his truth.

Meanwhile, personal desires and professional dreams collide in You Should See Me In A Crown, a 2021 Stonewall Honor book. Liz Lighty dreams of attending Pennington College and leaving her small Indiana town forever. She can do it with the school’s scholarship for prom king and queen. But Mack, the new girl in school who’s an outsider like Liz, is running for prom queen as well. Will falling for the competition help or hurt Liz’s chances of breaking out? 

Independence may be every teen's wish, but family ties are inescapable — and everlasting. When The Love and Lies of Rukhsana Ali opens, only a few months separate 17-year-old Rukhsana Ali from the watchful eyes of her conservative Muslim parents and her future at Caltech. But when her parents catch Rukhsana kissing her girlfriend Ariana, all plans go out the window. 

Rukhsana is whisked away to Bangladesh, where her parents are adamant about organizing an arranged marriage for her ASAP. It’s by reading the pages of her grandmother’s diary, halfway around the world, that Rukhsana realizes she must fight for what — and whom — she loves, while striking a balance with family.

Be sure to visit the Scholastic Bookshelf for LBGTQIA+ resources and guidance on other must-discuss topics. If you’re planning to talk with your child about other complex topics and seek tips or book recommendations, we invite you to visit our Tough Topics hub. You’ll find a wealth of advice from Scholastic editors to help you navigate challenging conversations thoughtfully. Recent topic additions include:

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