- Can your child follow directions?
- Does he understand words like "wet" and "dry" and distinguish between the two? How about "toilet" or "potty"? Does he recognize words for urinating or defecating?
- Can she tell you where to find the toilet in your house?
- Is he in a stage where he wants to please you?
- Does she stay dry for 3-4 hours at a time? Are her bowel movements regular?
- Can he recognize when he has to use the bathroom?
- Is she itching for independence?
- Does he dislike having a dirty diaper?
- Does she imitate you when you use the bathroom?
- Does he want to wear underwear?
- Has she expressed an interest in using the toilet?
- Is it a relatively stable time in your family life? The stress brought on by big changes (such as a new baby or move to new house) can spell setbacks so it's better to wait until he feels comfortable and secure.