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Self-Expression in Preschool

What can you do to help with self-expression in your preschooler? Find out here.

Learning Benefits

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Dramatic Play
Listening and Speaking

Preschoolers enjoy the challenges of experimenting with a wide variety of media and tools, using them to express their feelings, ideas, and wishes while sharpening their basic skills. Threes and fours regularly use dramatic play as a way to express their ideas and feelings and feel in control and powerful.

Pretend play also allows them to take risks safely as they express their points of view. Threes like to play act scenarios about things they know, such as family situations. For example, they may express their real needs when they pretend to be "the baby" as a new little brother presents a home-front challenge by getting lots of attention.

How Parents Can Support Self-Expression:

  1. Provide opportunities for children to test their ideas. Be flexible with schedules to nurture the children's spontaneity and curiosity. Give children plenty of time to make decisions, play, and reflect on their discoveries.  
  2. Help children to scaffold and move on to a higher level. Talk to them about their ideas and encourage them to describe how they feel about their innovations and accomplishments.
  3. Be a good listener. Give the children your full attention as they express their feelings and ideas. Share their excitement. Write down their comments for documentation.
  4. Share books that show characters expressing themselves in various ways. In the book The Squiggle by Carole Lexa Schaefer, a creative little girl models for her classmates all the exciting things she can do with a piece of yarn. See what the children in your group can do!

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