by Allison McDonald No parent intentionally tries to discourage their child from reading. But sometimes our actions do just that. Kids may be resilient, but they are also really sensitive, and how we handle reading in our homes can work for or against our kids reading attitude. Once a child writes reading off, its much harder to reel them back in and get them to give it a second shot. Here are eight things to avoid . 1. Dont put down your childs reading materials. Comics and books with crude humor often get dragged through the mud, as do character-driven books. Their choices may not be your favorite, but when you say no to a book, what your child may hear is no to reading. Instead of banning their beloved reading material , find a way to add in some more desirable books into the mix. 2. Dont provide the wrong level material. No one likes reading something that makes them feel stupid. If the books are too hard they will frustrate your child. If the books are too easy, they will bore your little reader. You dont need to know your childs exact level; their interest will let you know. Go to the bookstore or library when you have a chunk of time and let them explore. Take out a bunch of books and try them out. Find favorite authors and read everything theyve written, then start again with a new author. 3. Dont use reading as a punishment. Saying things like Go to your bedroom and read! or If you do that again, I will make you go read. sets kids up to associate reading as a negative thing. Keep punishments and reading separate. 4. Dont forget to give your child books as a gifts. Gifts are special, and starting at birth books make the best gifts especially if you read them with the person who gave them to you. Book fairs at schools are a great place for kids to get excited about books, and we use them as treats! 5. Dont explain to your child they arent really reading yet when they are only looking at the pictures. If we tell our children they arent readers, they will believe it, and to a child this isnt as fluid as it is for adults. They dont see that reading is developmental, and this blow to their confidence can really stick with them. If they arent decoding words yet, let them know that they can read the pictures and tell the story that way until they can read the words too. 6. Dont forget to let your kids see you read for fun. Studies show that kids with parents who read often for pleasure are more likely to read for fun themselves. So if you want a kid who loves to read, let them see you reading too. 7. Dont over-correct and over-practice. Its exciting when your child starts to read independently, but forcing them to read and reread text until they have it perfect is not the most effective way to encourage or instruct. Read with your new reader and help when they ask for it. If they miss a word but the meaning is intact, dont interrupt. If the meaning of the sentence is all screwy, wait for a natural pause and ask them, Did that make sense? You can revisit the word if it didnt. Use the pictures and the rest of the text as clues if the word is too tough to decode. If you have to do this often, the text is too hard for your child. Choose something easier, or if they are insistent take turns reading so there is some fluency being modeled. 8. Dont forget to read to your kids. Every day. Even those days when you just want them to go to sleep already!! Check out Scholastic Parents Raise a Reader blog for more simple ways to bring literacy into your family. Together with Amy from Teachmama.com I share with readers tips, tricks and tried and true ways to Raise a Reader. The post 8 Ways Parents Discourage Their Kids From Reading appeared first on No Time For Flash Cards.