Common Discipline Problems

For most children, the times when they'll need discipline are fairly predictable. It's a lot easier to turn such petty crimes into teachable moments when you know what to expect at each "touch-point" of development.

Your 3 year old is learning about sharing, taking turns, and following rules. Predictable problems:

1. Hitting

2. Throwing things

3. Refusing to go to bed

4. Slipping away in a crowd

Your 4 year old is learning about following rules and paying attention to boundaries. Predictable problems:

1. Stealing

2. Lying

3. Name calling

4. Toilet talk

Your 5 year old is learning about controlling desires and taking responsibility for his actions. Predictable problems:

1. Stealing

2. Cheating

3. Teasing

4. Talking back